A Christian religion without hate?

I was born and raised Catholic, and have gone periods of faithfully attending church and periods where I have ceased due to an incidence. I love God, and long to find a religion within Christianity that I agree with. Problem is I do not agree with the condemnation (I don't feel it is our place) and judgment that goes along with so many religions. I am disgusted by the anti-ity movement (even though I am straight). And I cannot in my heart embrace the self-righteousness that I find in much of the organized religions. My faith and love for God has never wavered but my hope for religion has. Help! Is there a religion out there for me?